It takes a village…

16 05 2011
Week one in Costa Rica: done and done.  What a big change it has been to be here…. I mean pretty much in. Such a big change in fact, that the only way to fully and truly explain it to you all is the tried and true list form.
1. In Colombia we had 3 locks on the door. (that was in addition to the guards with guns outside the apartment complex). In Costa Rica we still have a guard (no gun, but he does have a machete that I think he uses in place of a weed-wacker), but we leave the doors wide open most of the time (I don’t even have a key to the place).
2. In Colombia the exchange rate for money was 1,850 pesos per dollar. In Costa Rica it is 510 colones per dollar. Therefore 5,000 Colombian pesos was like $3 and 5,000 colones is like $6. And that is totally throwing me for a loop.  The small coins that were worth less than a quarter in Colombia (that accumulated in my backpack like pennies at home) are now worth $1 (and my bad habits of misplacing/hording/disregarding this change could become a real money drain.)
3. In Colombia I was one of 3 people who was outside jogging (and wearing running shorts).  In Costa Rica you see Ticos and Americans alike– running, walking, jogging, etc. at all times of the day… in running shorts shorter than mine (men and women).
4. In Colombia I had to travel over an hour to the orphanage but the grocery store/malls/metro/etc. was just across the street. In Costa Rica I can walk to the orphanage but the grocery store is a car ride ot bus ride away.
5. In Colombia the only fastfood restaurants and chains that I remember seeing were: dominos, mcdonalds and an occassional subway.  In Costa Rica I even saw a Walmart today (enough said).
6.  The orphanage that I am working at is unlike any that I have been to before.  It takes a village to raise a child…. and this place has really brought that philosophy home.  It is actually called an Aldea (which means village), it consists of 8 casitas (little houses for those of you not so spanishly inclined) in which 5-12 kids live.  The caregivers, called tias (that means aunts) live there too. Thats right, they live there.  There are always at least 2 in each house. They live there 24/7 and work 11 days then get 3 days off. They are responsible for all the typical mom stuff– they take kids to drs appointments, cook, (don’t have to clean though because there are other auxiliary staff to do that– brilliant idea in my opinion in that it frees them up to actually spend time the with kids), help with homework, deal with behavioral issues and so on and so on. Each of the casitas are totally self-sufficient with a kitchen, living room, bedrooms, bathrooms- a real deal family home.
And this layout really makes the whole vibe totally different. It feels like a neighborhood. You see all the kids play outside together in the playground, basketball courts, swimming pool, open space between the houses. Then at meal-times they all “run home” to their respective houses and eat.  They just seem more adjusted, comfortable, protected.  And this is a challenging population. Over 50% of the kids here have moderate to severe delays (cognitive, physical, speech etc.) and other medical conditions requiring extra care.  But because of the structure, the involvement and commitment of the staff and tias, this place really seems to be working.
It has already been a great learning experience for me to see this alternative organizational framework.  I am sure there will be LOTS of stories and updates.  Sadly, this blog post will not be accompanied by photos because I seem to have accidentally lost my camera (I believe it is sitting in one of the over 6000 red taxis of San Jose).  Dang, almost made it the whole trip without a really-dumb-absent-minded-keely-moment. But it appears it has arrived.  So until I make it to the mall (see #4) or Walmart (see#5) I will give you all some well deserved visuals of this beautiful country.
That is definitely the one thing the two places have in common: beautiful, green, sunny, tree-y, mountain-y, flower filled, gorgeous countries.  I am excited for lots of exploring.
KO

Asia Webinar - Boys from China Available Too


Xiang Xiang is a little boy with a spinal deformity.
Dong Dong is a little boy with albinism.
Ya Ya is a little boy with post operative CHD.
 
Most (but not all!) children adopted through the “standard” China program are little girls – but did you know that there are many little boys with mild to moderate special needs available for adoption from China?  On the shared database there are currently 1110 profiles of boys (as compared to 416 girl profiles).
 
Gladney’s upcoming Asia Waiting Child Webinar will be focusing on adopting boys!   The Webinar is on Wednesday, May 11th at 1pm EST, be sure to register today!
 
Boys available for adoption are all ages!  1-3 years old; 4-7 years old; and 8+.  If you can imagine these little guys growing up through these stages and want to be a home and family for a waiting child who happens to be a boy – please let us know!  http://asiawaitingchild.wordpress.com/

A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

Medellin… a picture is worth a thousand words

There is one thing that I know for sure… kids living in orphanages LOVE cameras: having their picture taken, taking pictures, and looking at themselves in pictures. I mean absolutely love. I mean you could entertain a handful of kids an entire day with nothing more than a digital camera. The battery would die before they would tire.  What I am not as sure about, is why they love it so much. Is it the novelty? The power of creating an image? The coolness factor? The ability to see themselves? (there aren’t a lot of mirrors in many of these places) Do they just like to touch, see, play, do? Maybe all these… maybe none.  In every country, in every orphanage I have worked in the crowds are the same when you take out the camera.  So, I have several ideas about projects I would like to someday conquer with the kids and cameras, but for the time and resource requirements, we started small: picture frames.

It’s a little thing really.  Something we middle class Americans take for granted.  The luxury of being surrounded in your home by your family’s smiling faces. We plaster our homes with picture frames. I know for me, in all my moves, on of the things that really makes me feel at home is when I hang up all my pictures of my friends and family. In the majority of institutions I have visited, the walls are a sad desolate extension of the rest of the building.  Sometimes they are painted a fun color, but more often than not they are the usual off-white, brick, blank, emotionless wall.  This place needed some pictures!!!

So I worked with the kids in small groups and they each made their picture frame.  This was fun… but the best part was to follow. After they finished painting, they each had 2 pictures with my camera. They could do whatever they wanted with these pictures: take it of someone/something, take a “selfy”, I would take pictures of them alone, with whoever they wanted, in whatever pose the wanted.  These were THEIR pictures and THEIR frames and they were able to make a choice of whatever they wanted to do (a rare opportunity when living amongst a group of kids this large) We had some serious creativity amongst the crowd!! And then of their two pictures, they chose one that I printed to put in the picture frame they made. Here are some pictures of the journey:


Frame painting


Hard at work


we glued tissue paper on the frames with the littlest ones


the finished products

 
Proud owner of a picture frame #1

Proud owner #2
And there are over 40 other proud owners who now have a little something to look at on their beds and walls. Just a little piece of home.

Kelly Reflects


Kebeb Tsehay is the orphanage I spend the majority of my time in when I'm in Ethiopia. I consider Kebeb Tsehay almost like a second home. I have SO many memories here. There have been some BIG changes here in the last few years, as evident by the completely changed landscape of buildings. When I was there the first time, the open space began as a "playground," with broken swings and lone slides. When I left after two months, the playground had been torn out, there were a few decent sized holes and eucalyptus logs sticking up from the ground. I had no idea the magnitude of the building these sticks would become. This new building is large. Like, larger than life large. I did a double take just to recognize the orphanage when I walked up. 

It was so eerie walking through the old buildings. The rooms that used to be filled with laughter (and tears) are quiet and still now. There is dust from renovations everywhere and broken ceramic tile pieces scattered on the ground. It felt like if you went back to visit an old house and it had been completely changed.  I'm not really sure who is more affected by the loss of the old buildings; me or the children.   The buildings will be remodeled and filled again with the sounds of too many children, and I know I will see it all again, but it won't be the same. I'm learning that with every trip, things will change. Children will come and go through orphanages, workers will turnover and there will always, always be more things to work on. Just because each trip is different doesn't mean each trip isn't just as worth it.



More playground






And here it is now...!

Crazy this came from sticks in the mud.
Gladney China Waiting Child Program:
Man Man headshot Xiang Xiang headshot Ya Ya headshot
Today we have just posted three new children available for adoption to our photolist page!  The children are all in the Shanghai Children’s Home.  If you have not yet visited our photolist page and are in need of the password, please email mary.chapman@gladney.org.  http://asiawaitingchild.wordpress.com/

Project Play Going Strong

What a difference a month makes


Back in Cali, 4 weeks later. Who knew there would be so many updates!

ProjectPlay
Wow! Little kids really are amazing…. and apparently so is ProjectPlay.

In my return, I entered the baby room at Oscar Scarpetta and was astounded to look around and see babies moving all over the place. Babies that one month ago were laying in care seats and propped sitting were now walking and crawling everywhere.  Know I realize that some of these changes are just normal development, but I have to believe that ProjectPlay also has something to do with it too.  I am thrilled and impressed with the success of ProjectPlay to date.  There are definitely a few kinks to be worked out, but overall… the bare bones of the operation (as they say) are running smoothly.  The adolescents are taking their responsibilities very seriously and are very invested in the improvements of the little ones.  I was met by hugs and kisses and questions of  “did you see so-and-so walking?” “so-and-so is starting to say a few words” “so-and-so can sit up all by herself.”  They felt really proud.
The ProjectPlay gym is an exciting whirlwind of activity when the adolescents are working with the little ones.  And the supervisors, Wan Su and Ana are doing an amazing job keeping them focused and motivated. They are reading books, running, jumping ,climbing, coloring, painting, laughing, hugging, playing pretend. Here, see for yourself:


Is the doctor in?....
Bouncing Tramp and Ball Pit
A little time to paint
So many babies so little time
  
Chiquetines Update
The amazing volunteer crew at Chiquetines are still VERY motivated working to improve the gross motor skills with the baby’s and toddlers here, especially those with neurological disabilities and developmental delays.  We taped our first in-service right before I left for Peru. While I was gone they all watched the video… and began implementing the programs.  Ee had a follow-up hands-on session this week.  This core group of women is absolutely amazing and totally committed to these kiddos.  There are about 5 of them that plan on working to provide “physical therapy” using the programs we designed together (with my “You can be a physical therapist too” handbook).  Hopefully these little ones continue to make progress.


This is what I look like when I explain stuff in Spanish
My buddy continues to struggle to heal from her injury… and after her hospitalization has had to spend LOTS of hours in bed. So, I spent the morning coloring, playing board games, taking goofy pictures with her.  I didn’t want to leave… those moments where I can’t help but think– this should not have to happen to a little girl like this, not just to go through all the health stuff she has been through, but to do it without a mom. Without someone to dote over her, play with her, hold her and tell her it will be okay.  Instead, she spends all day in her bunk-bed, most of the time alone. It’ll break your heart. But she is so darn happy.

 
High class all the time
The Crew
I am thrilled to be back with Magnolia… this time I am staying in her house with her and I am enjoying every minute.  It has been great sharing my stories of Peru, pictures and lots of laughs with all my many friends here.  Was lucky enough to get to go with Magnolia and a wonderful Australian family to visit some sights on Saturday.  This family has two little girls 10 and 13 adopted from Colombia and are spending their vacation showing the girls their country.  So fun to get to see this side of the coin! What a fantastic crew!!!!


Lunch with the Aussie Girls
On Tuesday off to Medellin to reconnect with everyone there… more to come.

KO

Two More Waiting Children Matched!

We are excited to announce that Gladney has matched two more Waiting Children with their forever families this week! 
   
Le Le and Zheng Zheng will be joining their families soon.
Also this week, we received several more profiles of Waiting Children who are designated to Gladney.  We are working on getting their profiles translated and will be posting them to the Photo List page soon!  Be sure to check the Photo List page often, as it is updated regularly as we receive new profiles and new information for children http://asiawaitingchild.files.wordpress.com/2011/01/how-to-request-photo-list-password.pdf