And then there were three

Yesterday was a quiet day.  We were tired but did a little  shopping,  We came back to .the Hotel and worked on the profiles of waiting children.  I think we were all a little quiet because on Saturday, Dr Darla Wrage returned to the states.  We will miss her.  She has provided invaluable help on this trip.  Our assessments were improved  by her expertise.  In a matter of one week she became our friend and one of the four musketeers.  She survived hot rooms, loads of children, Squatty potties and glass walled bathrooms with us.  We miss you Darla.

So Chelsea, Erin and I are in ChangSha, in the Hunan province. Again we are supported by Gongzhan and Rocky.  You just have to love them.  Always energetic, Alwaysup for the next challenge.  It is VERY hot in ChangSha.  It is considered one of the Asian "hot pots" according to Gongzhan.  Some of the unusual foods we were offered here included, braised snake, duck tounges, lychee soda and several types of Jerky.

Today we will visit ChangSha no. 1.  So here we go.  We are ready for meeting more special kiddos. 


 
These are some of the cute moments from the past several days.
Sometimes words fail to express the emotions associated with the day.  I want to share so many stories that this post would be three pages long.  I met a beautiful girl today who was deaf.  She made sounds for pleasure but could not say any words.  She was so happy, and sweet.  She is learning some sign language.  Unfortunately she was in an accident and is missing the fingers on one hand.  that will make it difficult for her to complete a lot of signs in the traditional manner.

I am meeting with a variety of younger and older kiddos.  Severe medical needs and small medical needs.  Many that are a puzzle.  I also met an older boy who was super skinny and could not use his legs.  All the other children were not so skinny so eventually we were able to deduce he has a disorder that causes muscles to shrink.  He was so smart and wrote his name in characters for us. I just adore him.  We made him promise to eat everything offered and try to move his arms around more.  Gongzhan showed him exercises with a water bottle.  Yes, thats correct, Gongzhan!  I guess he was listening all these trips.
 

I have hope that every boy and girl will find that forever family to love them.  A home, brothers, sisters and a bright clear future.  That is what we mean at Gladney by Guang Ming.  The bright clear future each child is entitled and so richly deserves.  Guang Ming kiddos! 

 

Here are some pictures from the day





Greetings from JiangXi province

We are in the JiangXi province and today gives new meaning to exhaustion.  We left our hotel in Shanghai at  5:45 am. We flew to the JiangXi province.  We were met by provincial officials boarded a van and drove two hours from the capital city to our first stop.  We evaluated six children there.  This is a SWI we have been to before so we knew the setup and the people.   This is the orphanage where one of the director's assistants was an orphan in this institution herself.  She has been working here for quite awhile and has her own family now.  So after we worked with the kiddos, we got back in the van and drove 3.5 hours to our next stop.  It was 8:30 pm by then.  The goal for today is to see 13 children in this city, then drive three hours to our next destination.  If everything goes as planned, we will see 50 children here before we move onto Hunan province.  We saw almost 30 children in Shanghai.  We are just trying to think of each day not total numbers as its too overwhelming.  All these kiddos need forever families.

In the early morning, I am reflecting on three of the children we met today.  One was a little cutie who came in with a cleft lip palette.  His foster mom brought him in and she was so sweet. She had been the foster mom to another child we met today.  When the other boy cried, she ran over with her current foster child and held them both on her lap. She really has a mothers heart.  There was another boy who has Spina Bifida.  He could do much more than we expected and he gets around by crawling.  We heard one of the other children speaking to the director.  The translation was, "hello, director mommy".  We came here last year so we know the director and the staff.  This is the SWI where one of the directors assistants was an orphan in this orphanage growing up.

The electronics have been challenging, here.  I could not get on email last night and my phone has just stopped working.  I will try for pictures later.  I am thinking about all the children we have met and all the children we are going to meet who need to find their forever families.  I am holding them in my heart until they do.  Hope you will too.







 

Our bags are packed

Well almost.  JiangXi here we come.  We will travel to Nanchung and the take a van out to five different orphanages so follow along.

It is always bittersweet to leave Shanghai.  We will miss the kiddos, the staff and everyone at the social welfare institute.  This orphanage is where Superkids began.  Yet we are excited.  On to new orphanages and a different pace.  I will leave you with a shanghai story.  We saw a little boy on Monday who every time I put him down he ran to me to be picked up.  Such a sweet little bug.  The joy is I have been speaking with his parents.  I am passing along their hugs to him.  What a special moment.  

Off to JiangXi.  

Goodbye Shanghai, until next time!

We have had an amzing two days at Shanghai Children's Home, filled with laughter and tears. These kids are amazing, full of potential and special spirit. We could tell that everyone in the orphanage, from the director to the caregivers and even one of the children really enjoyed and appreciated Erin Martin's video of Shanghai kids before and after adoption. While watching the video, people were talking, smiling, and yelling out the Chinese names of kids they remembered.

Darla getting down to eye-level with the kids
After sharing the video, we then began focusing on spending time meeting a new group of children who are designated to Gladney Center and are waiting to be adopted by their forever families. We also did a lot of baby hugging and played with the older kids. 


By the way, we hope you can spread the word about these wonderful kids! We head off to JiangXi Province tomorrow at 5am! 

First day at Shanghai Children’s Home

Here's a quick update! Yesterday we spent the day at Shanghai Children's Home and met a number of children. Although they all had a different story, they were each beautiful and special. Some of the children especially took a liking to us. Chelsea looked at some books with an older girl, who enjoyed showing us all the English words she knew. I turned around once to see Erin snuggling a baby, and one little boy walked over to me every time someone put him down.


These were such special moments we shared with the kids. The sweetness of the day came back to the hotel with all of us. We all feel so lucky to spend some time with these wonderful children.

Pat